LOVE IS HATE

Problem is that the ideal of 'equal outcomes', is a fascist one. It can only be achieved by compelling others (by usually coercive means) to do as those in power say:

"Douglas Murray on utopian thinking and ineradicable vices:

To ‘destroy’ misogyny (or, for that matter, its opposite – misandry) you would have to arrive at a time when nobody of either sex… felt any need to seize on a secondary characteristic as a way to push their primary dislike. All divorces would have to go swimmingly. Men would pay alimony only with pleasure and enthusiasm. Conversely, any woman who caught their husband cheating would have to say: “Well that was just my husband: I wouldn’t want to express any conclusions about men in general.” Perhaps this is desirable. But achievable? Hardly. The trouble is some people – including some of the most powerful people on the planet – seem to believe otherwise." [D Thompson]

https://unherd.com/2018/04/will-people-learn-hate-speech-stay/